"Charming isn't something you are....it's something you do."

Dave, I respectfully contend you are wrong. One can act as charming as he can, but if he's not naturally charming, he will not be charming.

One the other hand, a person who is naturally charming, will most of the time be charming, without trying to be charming.

As for me, I'm a charmer. jtull7