From the time I was very little, I have found a particular type of person attractive: female, blonde, pretty eyes, feminine, etc. I had crushes on my kindergarten teacher, Miss Fisher, and on Jenny L. in 1st grade, both of whom met this conventional standard. In other words, I know I've been straight for as long as I have memories of being alive. I'm wired to like pretty women.
Now, if someone tried to tell me to look at a guy and feel attraction, it simply would never, ever work. Call me wrong, beat me up, lock me in a room, whatever; you would never, ever be able to convince me that a man is sexually attractive. It's just not possible.
So, I figure, it is with gay people. It's not a choice; it's either genetic or conditioned very early in development (or some combination) .
If it jams, force it. If it breaks, it needed replacing anyway.
Last edited by F14Scott; 09-13-2011 at 06:36..