Thank you all. I happen to have an amazing (younger) wife that carries, shoots and has seen my difficulties. She bought me a Crimson Trace Grip, a Lone Wolf ported barrel and a Tungsten Guide rod.
I'm going to carefully try the techniques suggested and report back.
Thank you again. This resource is amazing. Back in my day, you'd have to "ask around" and hope for the best. Now you can get the brightest and the most helpful in a short time on the internet. One member, a physician, even pm'ed me with helpful suggestions.
I am very appreciative and will readily contribute on subjects I know.