Not military, but I do live in San Diego and hang out with a couple of inactive/retired Navy guys.
Your best bet for good times in San Diego is probably Pacific Beach. Garnet St in particular has a million bars and clubs, lots of lovely ladies, and good late night burritos. The crowd is pretty fratty, but there are always a ton of military guys at Moondoggies and PB Bar and Grill, which are down at the bottom of the street.
Mission Beach down by the coaster is pretty busy at night too. A little shadier crowd, but good times anyway.
Sea World, the Zoo, Balboa park are the three big tourist attractions, closely follwed by the Gaslamp/Harbor area.
Horton Plaza mall is a massive outdoor mall that is walking distance from the Harbor, for all of your expensive shopping needs.
If you want to know anything more, or more specific, message me and I'll let you know.
Last edited by DjA; 02-16-2006 at 02:02..